Parental
Guidance (PG)
For typically developing and
special needs children of all
ages The PG program is for the
parent(s) or caregiver(s) who is
looking for new tools and
strategies to enhance their
general parenting skills, and/or
need guidance in developing a
plan to address a particular
issue they are having with their
child/children.
The decision to add this kind
of program to my life-guiding
practice came out of the demand
I saw from my clients who were
parents or caregivers seeking to
be better, more connected,
consistent parents, but was
initially born out of my
previous incarnations as a child
care worker, a typically
developing and special education
teacher, recreational, play, and
behavioral therapist. Working in
those capacities was where I
discovered that in order to help
the child you first must help
the parent(s) or caregiver(s)
recognize what it is that the
child/children needs in order to
be happy, healthy and
well-adjusted. Obviously, just
like with adults, that has to be
addressed differently in each
individual case. I don’t believe
in cookie cutter solutions that
are one size fits all. For
instance, I feel it’s important
to have a different strategy
with a child whose having issues
with bed wetting at four than
you would at ten, as should your
plan and expectations be
different with an autistic child
who is having a hard time
socializing with peers than a
typically developing one.
Sometimes, clients come to me
unaware that their emotional
eating, compulsive exercising or
shopping is due to a difficulty
their having with their
child/children, and it takes
some excavating of their family
situation to see that the
problem they’ve come to me to
work on is actually the coping
mechanism they’ve developed to
deal with what is really
bothering them. You can help a
person discover and develop
healthier coping mechanism, but
if you don’t treat what’s
causing them to look for a way
to cope in the first place then
their family situation will
never improve. Even clients who
come to me very aware of their
need to address a particular
issue with their child/children
usually have to sort out first
what they or the parental unit
has done prior to seeking
assistance to contribute to
their own difficulties, and
those they are having with their
child/children.
The PG program is set-up to
empower the parent(s) to be not
just better parents for the sake
of their children, but for the
sake of themselves. Because I
believe if you don’t have a
clear idea of why you do what
you do, and how to create an
action plan for yourself you can
get excited about, how can you
do that for your child/children.
So whether you want to assuage
some pre-parental anxiety, or
have an issue with an adult
child that has been plaguing you
for years, the PG program can
guide you toward a better
relationship with yourself and
your child, using real world
tools and strategies that will
be developed with you and your
child’s/children’s unique
make-up, strengths and
challenges in mind.
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